Sunday, May 25, 2025

Various kinks and fetishes to be aware of

Abduction - Sexual arousal from being abducted or kidnapped

Electric stimulation - A practice involving electro stimulation to nerves in the body

Age play - A form of role play that can enhance power dynamics

Aliens/xenophobia - Sexual arousal from aliens or dressing up as an alien

Agoraphilia - Engaging in sexual activity outdoors

Anal penetration - Inserting a toy like a vibrator or strap on in to your partners anus

Anal stretching - Stretching your partners anus with your first, a toy or other means.

Asphyxiation - Intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for sexual pleasure

Ball busting ( CBT ) The art of busting -  activity involving the application of pain or constriction to the male genitals

Ball stretching - A ball stretcher, or scrotum stretcher, is a sex toy that is used to stretch and elongate the scrotum.

Barebacking

Bathroom control - The dominant controls how, when and where their sub can use the bathroom.

Begging - Pleading with your Domme/Dom

Bondage - The art of rope typing your partner 

Body modification - Deliberately altering ones physical appearance 

Branding - A form of permanent body art 

Nipple play - Practice of rubbing, sucking on or touching your partners nipples

Caning - Consensual impact play where one person strikes another 

Chastity - Chastity belts are a type of chastity device used in BDSM as part of the practice of orgasm denial, to prevent the wearer from engaging in certain types of sexual activity

Castration

CBT (cock n ball torture) - Application of pain or restriction to the male genitles  

Degradation - Consensually demeaning or humiliating a partner

Diapers - Sexual pleasure from wearing diapers or age regression

Double penetration - Inserting two body parts in to a person 

Edging - An orgasm is controlled, delayed or prevented.

Enemas - Sexual arousal from enema insertion 

Face sitting - Or Queening is the act of sitting on your partners face for oral pleasure by both parties

Feeder/Eater

Feet - Sexual pleasure from feet- clean, pretty, dirty or smelly.

Financial - Power exchange dynamic where one partner (the submissive) derives pleasure from surrendering control of their finances to another partner (the dominant).

Fisting - Practice of inserting the hand and maybe part of the arm in to your partners anus or vagina

Fire play - Sexual practice involving fire such as fire and alcohol to the skin

Forced bi - Heterosexual person (usually a man) is forced to perform homosexual sex acts

Furries - Community of people who have a personal and/or sexual interest in anthropomorphic animals

Golden showers - Stimulation from being peed on

Orgies - Sexual stimulation from group sex 

Hair pulling - Sexual pleasure from having ones hair pulled. 

Hypnosis - Involving hypnotic suggestions intended to increase arousal, to create or enhance sexual pleasure

Hypoxia - Sexual pleasure from the restriction of oxygen to the brain

Impact play - Sexual please from giving or receiving spankings, lashings, whippings, floggings 

Intoxication - Sexual pleasure from being intoxicated

Knife play - A form of sexual pleasure from knives, daggers and swords for stimulation

Masochism - A sexual pleasure from physical pain

Medical play/Dr Nurse/Nurse patient 

Mummification - A sexual desire to be wrapped up in order to restrict movement

Non consensual - Any activity that falls outside of the pre agreed upon boundaries and limits

Objectification - Treating a person as a thing or object, devoid of their own personality, feelings, or rights, and focusing solely on their physical attributes or the pleasure they provide

Orgasm denial - Denial of orgasm

Penis humiliation - A sexual desire to have ones tiny penis degraded

Pet play - Animal roleplay/ power exchange dynamics

Pony play - A unique form of BDSM involving dressing up and roleplaying

Pregnancy - A fetish involving having a sexual desire or fantasy about a pregnant woman

Public exposure - Publicly exposing oneself or having it done by a dominate partner

Rape Fantasy - Rape fantasy or rape play involves sexual role-playing in which one partner plays the submissive (the victim) and the other plays the dominant (the attacker).

Rope/Tying/Shibari - Rope bondage or Shibari is a style that originates from Japan

Rimming - A sensation where you stimulate your partners anus with your tongue, mouth or face

Sensation - Tickling, contact with certain temperatures, candle wax etc

Sensory deprivation - Depriving someone of one or more of their senses

Sissyfication - Reversal of gender roles and making a submissive male take on a feminine role.

Sneezing - Sexual pleasure from sneezes

Sounding - A surgical steel object males use to insert in to the open end of their penis

Spanking - Erotic spanking is the art of spanking for sexual arousal

Stockings - Seeing someone wear r pose in nylons

Stuffing - Refers to inserting objects 

Strapons - Strap-on play is an exploration of sexual diversity, connection, and empowerment. It allows partners to engage in a variety of sexual activities.

Suspension - A person is supported by ropes, chains, hooks or underwear for wedgies.

Teasing and denial - "tease" refers to playfully provoking or irritating someone, often in a lighthearted way. "Denial" is a refusal to acknowledge

Tentacles - A tentacle fetish is a sexual interest in tentacles and real or fantasy creatures with them. Some call it a tentacles fetish or a Japanese tentacle fetish.






Subs with various kinks for sessions and where to find them

You can easily find BDSM subs with specific kinks on Twitter, Tumblr, Reddit, FetLife, FET, and premium chat.

On Twitter you can start by signing up for an account, put in your link tree for verification so your subs know you are who you say you are. Get yourself a short verification video going. You're all set to accept responses. 

On Tumblr do the same and try to set yourself up with a nice banner.

Reddit works about the same except you have options to join specific groups for BDSM sessions and or findom.

Fetlife, you can set yourself up with a profile and get yourself ID verified. Join different groups and subs can find you pretty easily.

Fet works about the same as Tumblr or Twitter with a different interface.

Premium chat you can sign up for an account and get ID verified but you post widges specific to what services you want to offer. It can be kink, life coaching, tarot card readings etc. Here's a link https://premium.chat/MissMe777/invite

It doesn't matter what you look like, there's a type for everyone.









Paypigs and where to find them

 You can find them on Twitter, FetLife, Reddit, Tumblr and YouTube. Or they might seek you out. 

Twitter - All you have to do is sign up for an account, put up a photo and banner. Create a verification video and link tree. (In your verification post you can say something like my name is "Miss Bella' Divine Miss" GoddessState of Grace" This is my verification video. Start sending.) Something like that. You should start getting responses immediately.


Reddit, set yourself up with an account and start upvoting posts for karma. You can join findomme groups and make posts. Make sure you have your linktree, ID verified website for verification in bio. You start getting responses pretty quickly.


Tumblr same thing as reddit


Youtube is for established, seasoned Dommes that don't mind being non discreet about their practice.


It doesn't matter what you look like. Brattiness and an attitude help. 




Various kinks and fetishes to be aware of

Abduction - Sexual arousal from being abducted or kidnapped Electric stimulation - A practice involving electro stimulation to nerves in the...